{"id":1755,"date":"2022-10-16T07:20:00","date_gmt":"2022-10-16T12:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifesomeday.com\/?p=1755"},"modified":"2022-10-16T07:20:00","modified_gmt":"2022-10-16T12:20:00","slug":"increasing-your-passion-for-life-by-building-your-self-esteem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifesomeday.com\/increasing-your-passion-for-life-by-building-your-self-esteem\/","title":{"rendered":"Increasing-Your-Passion-for-Life-by-Building-Your-Self-Esteem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Increasing Your Passion for Life by Building Your Self-Esteem<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cYou yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love &amp; affection.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Buddha  <\/i><\/b><br \/>\nHave you ever wished that you felt better about yourself? Maybe you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve felt kind of \u00e2\u0080\u009cblah\u00e2\u0080\u009d about your life and where it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s going.<br \/>\nThe good news is if you put your mind to it, you do have the power to grow your self-esteem!<b><i> <\/i><\/b>When you do, <b><i>you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll also, as a happy result, turn up your passion and galvanize your efforts to live the life you seek and deserve. <\/i><\/b><br \/>\nThis guide provides specific actions to take in seven different areas of your life to achieve greater self-esteem:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Discover how your job can increase positive feelings about yourself.<\/li>\n<li>How to use your thoughts to feel better about yourself<\/li>\n<li>The importance of doing some physical and emotional \u00e2\u0080\u009chouse-cleaning\u00e2\u0080\u009d<\/li>\n<li>Engaging regularly in cherished activities to cultivate feelings of self-love and self-worth<\/li>\n<li>In re-connecting with your life roles as a partner and parent, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll find your opinion of yourself improves quickly.<\/li>\n<li>Your physical well-being is intimately aligned with what you think and believe about yourself, so we\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve included a chapter about how to enhance your physical self.<\/li>\n<li>Finally, learn the powerful impact that recognizing your uniqueness can have on your efforts to increase your self-esteem.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b><i>Begin your journey now to construct self-esteem that will drive you to valiantly create the existence you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve always dreamed of for you and your family.<\/i><\/b><br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cA man is but the product of his thoughts; what he thinks, he becomes.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Mahatma Gandhi  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589828\\\"><\/a>1. Apply Yourself at Work to Increase Your Self-Esteem<\/h1>\n<p>One of the main sources of your self-esteem as an adult is your career. <b><i>Regardless of the kind of work you do, it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s important to recognize its value in your life.<\/i><\/b><br \/>\nYour job is the source of your livelihood. It provides much of the main structure to your existence. How you feel about your work plays a major role in how you feel about yourself.<br \/>\nHopefully, you have a positive view of your career and put forth your best efforts at work. But even if you don\u00e2\u0080\u0099t, it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s time to realize its impact on your life. Your work can bring you positive experiences, feelings, and self-esteem if you choose to apply yourself.<br \/>\n<b>Consider these points to galvanize your job efforts and pump up your self-esteem:<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Discover the value in working hard.<\/b> No matter how you feel about your job, if you can re-frame it so you focus on your efforts, your self-esteem will improve. Whether you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re working diligently at filing and answering the phones or making as many sales calls as you can in a day, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel better about yourself.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>At the end of the day, when you step back and look around at all you accomplished, you can\u00e2\u0080\u0099t help but have positive feelings.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Learn to love your job.<\/b> After all, someone somewhere benefits because of the work you complete. Work toward finding an inner peace related to your career.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li><b><i>Make a conscious decision to love your work.<\/i><\/b> In order to allow yourself to love your job, let go of the negativity and seek to find the love for what you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re doing for a living. There is something positive to be said about every job.<\/li>\n<li>Identify the positives of your job and focus on them each day. Make something great happen by loving your job.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Be the best<\/b> office assistant, garbage collector, or insurance agent you can be. What will it take for you to be the star worker at your workplace? If you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re unsure where to start, begin observing a co-worker whom you believe does a top-notch job.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>How does the person conduct himself? What do you notice about their work ethic? What about work habits? Do they consistently arrive early and stay a bit late? Perhaps they ask questions to clarify assignments and works creatively on each project.<\/li>\n<li>Use your observational skills to find out how to be the best, and then apply what you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve learned to rise to the top.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Putting your nose to the grindstone will aid you to re-discover what\u00e2\u0080\u0099s important to you in terms of your career. <b><i>Make every effort to re-connect with your job.<\/i><\/b> When you see the value of working hard, decide to love your job, and strive to be the best worker you can, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll increase your self-esteem tenfold.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cWork joyfully and peacefully, knowing that right thoughts and right efforts will inevitably bring about right results.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~James Allen<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589829\\\"><\/a>2. Use Your Cognitions to Build a Positive View of Yourself<\/h1>\n<p>Although self-esteem has to do with how you feel, you can affect your level of self-esteem by using your thoughts or \u00e2\u0080\u009ccognitions.\u00e2\u0080\u009d The good news is that you have control over your thoughts and can change them if it will help you feel better or progress toward improved self-esteem.<br \/>\n<b>Survey this list of strategies to utilize your cognitions to increase your self-esteem:<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Refrain from negative self-talk. <\/b>What do you say when you talk to yourself? Perhaps you say mostly positive things. \u00e2\u0080\u009cI know I\u00e2\u0080\u0099m going to do a good job\u00e2\u0080\u009d or \u00e2\u0080\u009cNo one can make better cakes than I can\u00e2\u0080\u009d are examples of positive self-talk that serve to enhance how you feel about yourself.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>On the other hand, negative self-talk can be destructive to your self-esteem. Examples of negative self-talk are comments like, \u00e2\u0080\u009cI know I\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll never amount to anything\u00e2\u0080\u009d or \u00e2\u0080\u009cMy boss will never pick me to work on an important project.\u00e2\u0080\u009d<\/li>\n<li>Strive to avoid negative self-talk by practicing the subsequent strategies in this chapter.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Learn to distract yourself from negative thoughts. <\/b>As soon as you begin to think negatively, it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s your responsibility to change those thoughts.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Notice right away when negativity is floating through your mind. Then, make a decision to think about something else.<\/li>\n<li>Tell yourself, \u00e2\u0080\u009cI\u00e2\u0080\u0099m not going to think about that right now. Instead, I\u00e2\u0080\u0099m going to watch a movie.\u00e2\u0080\u009d Or you could say, \u00e2\u0080\u009cI\u00e2\u0080\u0099m going to do something positive right now, like wash the car.\u00e2\u0080\u009d<\/li>\n<li><b><i>The key is to be aware of your thoughts so you can immediately change your thinking (and perhaps your activity) at the time you begin thinking negatively.<br \/>\n<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Reflect on your successes.<\/b> Remembering what you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve done well in the past will help you gain some wind beneath your wings. When you remind yourself that you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve enjoyed some great successes, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll realize that you can also have great success in your present and future.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Consider the skills and character traits that helped you succeed. Perhaps you used patience and tact when dealing with someone in power over you. Maybe you persevered through a very rough time by thinking positively and received a promotion as a result.<\/li>\n<li><b><i>Those elements are still inside of you.<\/i><\/b> Vow to re-discover the aspects of yourself that kept you going to achieve past successes. You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel great about yourself.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Do some self-evaluation\u00e2\u0080\u0094what are you really good at?<\/b> Delve in further to your personality and preferences. <b><i>List the talents, skills, and activities you do well.<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Perhaps you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re creative and make beautiful scrapbooks or like to stay busy so everything around the house is always in tip-top condition. Maybe you decided to get in shape a few years ago and have done a great job maintaining your good health.<\/li>\n<li>Look deep inside to acknowledge what you excel at. As you recognize the positive traits within you, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll realize you have a lot of reasons to have a healthy self-esteem.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>What positive elements do people notice about you?<\/b> Do they say, \u00e2\u0080\u009cYou\u00e2\u0080\u0099re really good with numbers\u00e2\u0080\u009d or \u00e2\u0080\u009cYou type faster than anyone I know?\u00e2\u0080\u009d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li><b><i>Recognize that people usually don\u00e2\u0080\u0099t make complimentary statements unless they really believe you possess those qualities.<\/i><\/b> Use those statements to remind yourself of more positives about yourself. Find personal strength in the idea that you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re good at some things and people notice.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It\u00e2\u0080\u0099s smart to use your thoughts however you can to feel better about yourself. Avoid engaging in negative self-talk. Distract yourself when you begin to think negatively. Ponder past successes and think about what you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re good at. Take a look at what others say you do well. Re-align your thoughts to produce more self-esteem and you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll like what happens.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cOnce you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you\\&#8217;ll start having positive results.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Willie Nelson<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589830\\\"><\/a>3. Do Some Housecleaning\u00e2\u0080\u0094Physically and Emotionally<\/h1>\n<p>When you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re looking to ignite your passion, it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s helpful to live an uncluttered existence, physically and emotionally. Have you considered that maybe it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s time to do a bit of housecleaning?<br \/>\n<b><i>Whether it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s your physical or emotional \u00e2\u0080\u009cenvironment\u00e2\u0080\u009d that is cluttered, why not gussy up your surroundings? <\/i><\/b><br \/>\n<b>Ponder these points:<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Clutter is a deterrent to positive self-esteem.<\/b> Because clutter in and of itself is distracting, it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s wise to tidy up the world around you. Physical clutter draws your attention away from what\u00e2\u0080\u0099s important and on to the messy situations surrounding you. Emotional clutter serves to do the same thing\u00e2\u0080\u0094divert attentions from what really matters.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li><b><i>Banishing chaos and messy spaces from your life will help you re-gain the space to work on things that matter to you.<\/i><\/b> When you do, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll build your self-esteem immensely.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>If you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re unsure about the suggestion to physically clean up your surroundings, try cleaning out just one drawer, cabinet, or closet. You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll see you completed a task and made something better. Then, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel pretty good about it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>If you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re overwhelmed at the prospect of getting your home in order, start small. For example, focus on one room at a time, or even one corner of the room or a piece of furniture that\u00e2\u0080\u0099s piled with clothing.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Bring order into your life.<\/b> When there\u00e2\u0080\u0099s order in your home, you can look around and feel good about your environment and yourself. You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel calmer and self-esteem will grow.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Elicit your partner\u00e2\u0080\u0099s help to get things organized at home.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Examine your close relationships.<\/b> Our close relationships have a profound impact on how we feel about ourselves. If you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re in a relationship with someone who\u00e2\u0080\u0099s supportive, kind, and loving, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll believe you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re worthy of love and affection.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>On the other hand, if one or more of your major relationships causes you to feel hurt, discouraged, disappointed, or angry, your self-esteem probably suffers because of it.<\/li>\n<li>Are most of the people you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re close to positive and encouraging toward you? Do you feel emotionally supported by them? <b><i>When you fill your life with loving, caring people, it will make it easier for you to maintain healthy self-esteem.<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Take action to change relationships that bring you down.<\/b> Tell the person how you feel when they speak negatively toward you and then share what you want the person to do instead.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00e2\u0080\u009cIt hurts my feelings when you call me, \u00e2\u0080\u0098Tubby.\u00e2\u0080\u0099 I\u00e2\u0080\u0099d like you to call me by my name instead.\u00e2\u0080\u009d You could also say something like, \u00e2\u0080\u009cWhen you yell at me, I get scared. Can you please lower your voice or wait until you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re not angry before you talk to me?\u00e2\u0080\u009d<\/li>\n<li>There may be times when you must make a decision to end the relationship for your own best interests. If you feel unhappy more than you feel happy about being with a person, it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s wise to consider moving on to a more emotionally uncluttered existence.<\/li>\n<li>Nothing will bring down your self-esteem quicker than a relationship filled with negativity and angst.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Having a cluttered home or emotional state can hamper your efforts to build self-esteem. Take action to bring order into your life. Evaluate close personal relationships and work to resolve any that are messy or chaotic. <b><i>Clean up your act in every way and you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel better about you.<\/i><\/b><br \/>\nPlus, when you find yourself without chaos, you can better focus on the life you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve always wanted.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cRemember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Eleanor Roosevelt<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589831\\\"><\/a>4. Immerse Yourself in Hobbies and Activities You Love<\/h1>\n<p>Part of stoking your self-esteem is allowing yourself the time, space, and supplies to just be you\u00e2\u0080\u0094to enjoy taking part in the activities that you choose.<br \/>\n<b><i>If you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve found yourself feeling angry, resentful, or just empty lately, maybe it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s time to get back into doing what you love to do.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Recognize that doing something you love ignites your passion for life.<\/b> You tend to be good at things you like to do. People will praise your efforts. You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel great about doing what you love. In essence, your self-esteem can be found by doing your special pastime.<\/li>\n<li><b>Focus your efforts.<\/b> Rather than trying three new activities or hobbies you want to explore, <b><i>pick one that you get excited about.<\/i><\/b> Then, channel your efforts into that hobby. You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll see yourself getting better and better and it will feel marvelous!<\/li>\n<li><b>Schedule \u00e2\u0080\u009cfun time\u00e2\u0080\u009d into your appointment book. <\/b>When you do what you love on a regular basis (at least once weekly), your interest and excitement in the activity is piqued. You have something to look forward to. You want to learn more and do more. It\u00e2\u0080\u0099s exhilarating.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li><b><i>There\u00e2\u0080\u0099s no easier way to get excited about life than to get in to something you really want to do.<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>How can you not feel better about yourself when you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re taking part in activities you adore? When you do those things, you develop more passion in your life. Immerse yourself into your beloved hobbies and you will truly enhance your self-esteem.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cThe privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Joseph Campbell<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589832\\\"><\/a>5. Concentrate on Being a Great Partner or Parent<\/h1>\n<p>When you demonstrate who the most important people in your life are, something wonderful happens. The relationships bloom and so does your self-esteem.<br \/>\n<b>Review the strategies below to increase your efforts to be a fabulous partner or parent and in turn, cultivate your self-esteem and happiness:<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Notice what you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re good at in your role as a partner or parent.<\/b> Pat yourself on the back. Recognizing your strengths in your relationship will help you realize what a giving, caring person you are.<\/li>\n<li><b>Decide what you can do to improve as a partner, mother, or father.<\/b> And then do it. Perhaps you could deepen your relationships with your kids by spending one-on-one time with each of them every week. In your partner relationship, bring some romance to the time you spend together to re-ignite sparks and keep the fires of romantic passion burning.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li><b><i>You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll boost your positive feelings about yourself when you work to be a better partner or parent.<br \/>\n<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Find the joy in your role.<\/b> What is it about being a mom, dad, wife, husband, or partner that makes you happy? Recognize there was a time in your life when you likely yearned to be in the very role you now have. Take some time to find the real satisfaction and joy in your important life role(s).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Immerse yourself in the joy of the stage of life you find yourself in right now. Notice the attraction you feel toward your partner. Smile at your child\u00e2\u0080\u0099s sweet ways. Recognize all that is good, fresh, and true around you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Identify with your gratitude for your partner or children.<\/b> It\u00e2\u0080\u0099s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of working and paying the bills. Take some moments to give thanks for those special people in your life.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li><b><i>When you recognize the fascinating, loving people you have close to you, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll realize you must be a pretty worthy person, too.<br \/>\n<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Refuse to take your relationship for granted.<\/b> Stay in tune emotionally with the people closest to you. Notice their wants and needs. Be there for that special someone as much as you can.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>When you connect with the fact that neither of you really have to be where you are, you can see that you each chose the other. And that\u00e2\u0080\u0099s pretty awesome, don\u00e2\u0080\u0099t you think?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b><i>Focusing your efforts to be the best partner or parent you can be will bring incredible feelings of passion, joy, and self-satisfaction to your life.<\/i><\/b> Figure out what you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re good at and determine the areas you need to work on. See the fun and joy in your role.<br \/>\nLet yourself feel thankful and vow to never take your relationship for granted. Your self-esteem will bloom.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cTell me how a person judges his or her self-esteem and I will tell you how that person operates at work, in love, in sex, in parenting, in every important aspect of existence &#8211; and how high he or she is likely to rise. The reputation you have with yourself &#8211; your self-esteem &#8211; is the single most important factor for a fulfilling life.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Nathaniel Branden<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589833\\\"><\/a>6. Recognize Physical Well-Being is Intimately Connected with Your Self-Esteem<\/h1>\n<p>The state of your physical self is an integral aspect to how you feel about yourself. <b><i>Think about the time, effort, and money you put in to your physical appearance.<\/i><\/b> Regular haircuts, professional shaves, facials, manicures, pedicures, and nice clothes are investments, not only in your appearance, but your self-esteem as well.<br \/>\n<b>Try these tips for keeping up your physical appearance to build your self-esteem:<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Take part in regular physical activity at least four times a week.<\/b> Exercising five or six times weekly is even better.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>When you exercise consistently you look better. Your skin is clearer. Your eyes are brighter. You appear more toned. And you walk with a certain renewed sense of confidence.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Become good at one sport.<\/b> Read about it. Study it. Practice it. Make it your \u00e2\u0080\u009cthing.\u00e2\u0080\u009d When you do, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel physically stronger. <b><i>And when you feel physically stronger, your confidence thrives.<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>People will come to you and ask your advice on the sport. You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll feel proud about what you know and how you excel.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Discover a hair style or haircut that\u00e2\u0080\u0099s exactly right for you. <\/b>A good barber or hair dresser can help. Rather than continually try to change your hair to go with the trends, instead, find the right cut for you that consistently looks great.<\/li>\n<li><b>Take care of your skin.<\/b> Whether you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re male or female, take care of your skin, especially your face.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Check out the cosmetics counter at a local department store and inquire about an effective skin care regimen. Don\u00e2\u0080\u0099t forget some body lotion for your arms and legs, too.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Wear good-fitting, classic clothing.<\/b> Your clothes don\u00e2\u0080\u0099t have to be expensive, but they should fit and flatter your body. If you struggle to select the styles that look best on you, ask for help when you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re shopping. Or seek assistance from a friend who always looks fantastic.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Even a small wardrobe of 8-10 high quality, nice-fitting pieces that mix and match can make you feel really great about yourself.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve probably suspected that how you care for yourself physically is connected with how you feel overall about yourself. Take pride in how you appear physically and self-esteem will grow.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cRegardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Arthur Ashe<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589834\\\"><\/a>7. Rejoice in Your Uniqueness<\/h1>\n<p><b><i>When you recognize your special sense of uniqueness and fully accept every part of yourself, you have successfully embraced the essence of you.<\/i><\/b> And when you do, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll have achieved great comfort and satisfaction with yourself.<br \/>\n<b>Reflect on these strategies to move ahead in your quest for self-esteem:<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Identify that there is only one you.<\/b> That\u00e2\u0080\u0099s right: no one else on this earth is quite like you. Your one-of-a-kind blend of character traits isn\u00e2\u0080\u0099t repeated by anyone else.<\/li>\n<li><b>Take note of your unique mix of talents and skills.<\/b> Maybe you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re a highly talented artist or musician and can wash a car or mow the lawn quicker than anybody else on your block.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>You love to tell stories and your friends always call you to seek advice of how to deal with challenges with their friends.<\/li>\n<li><b><i>Write down every talent and skill you believe you have.<\/i><\/b> Then enjoy the glory of all the great things you can do. Let yourself feel marvelous about what\u00e2\u0080\u0099s on your list.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Acknowledge the compliments you receive from others. <\/b>Learn to be open and accepting of what others tell you that you do really well. If you pay attention, your friends and loved ones will mention what you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re fantastic at through the compliments they give you.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul>\n<li>Maybe you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re the safest driver, funniest person to be around, or the best cook in your group of friends. When your friends remind you of these things, tell them you appreciate their comments. <b><i>Let yourself feel the love.<\/i><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ol>\n<li><b>Realize you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve survived troubles before. <\/b>You\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve no doubt survived your own set of struggles to make it to where you are right now. So, thank your lucky stars for providing you with the skills and talents that can help you survive and thrive.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><b><i>There\u00e2\u0080\u0099s no one else quite like you, and that\u00e2\u0080\u0099s something to feel good about.<\/i><\/b> Notice your own mix of personality characteristics, talents, and skills. Bask in the compliments you receive from others. And rejoice about whatever you have that\u00e2\u0080\u0099s good in your life.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cThe greatest difficulty is that men do not think enough of themselves, do not consider what it is that they are sacrificing when they follow in a herd, or when they cater for their establishment.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h1><a id=\\\"951400905183350-_Toc346589835\\\"><\/a>8. Summary<\/h1>\n<p>You enhance your passion for life whenever you increase your self-esteem. Some activities to take part in include applying yourself at work, using your thoughts to help yourself feel better, and doing some housecleaning, physically and emotionally. Also, take time to practice the hobbies and activities you love and work to be the best partner or parent you can be.<br \/>\nFocus on sprucing up your physical self and allow yourself to feel joy about your special set of talents and skills\u00e2\u0080\u0094there is only one you.<br \/>\n<b><i>As you begin working on these areas of your life, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ll notice something slowly flowering: your self-esteem!<\/i><\/b> And when you have self-esteem, you\u00e2\u0080\u0099re ready to build the life you crave and so richly deserve.<br \/>\n<b><i>\u00e2\u0080\u009cThink like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Oprah Winfrey<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Increasing Your Passion for Life by Building Your Self-Esteem \u00e2\u0080\u009cYou yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love &amp; affection.\u00e2\u0080\u009d ~Buddha Have you ever wished that you felt better about yourself? Maybe you\u00e2\u0080\u0099ve felt kind of \u00e2\u0080\u009cblah\u00e2\u0080\u009d about your life and where it\u00e2\u0080\u0099s going. 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