\”Studies have shown that very successful people never say ‘I can’t or I can’; they say ‘I am choosing to or choosing not to’. By speaking in this manner they feel in control of themselves and their destiny. It is not possible to feel truly good about ourselves unless we feel that we can shape and influence the direction of change going on in our lives. Just changing the words you use can have a dramatic change on your feelings. You will meet your need for certainty as you do this.”
Excerpt From: Marisa Peer. “Ultimate Confidence.”